Good one! Find something positive!
Reminds me of the old joke (probably false) about Bear Bryant watching the Crimson Tide practice when one of the first black students tried out in hopes of becoming their first black football player. The young man took the ball at the one yard line and evaded every member of the first string defense to make a touchdown with no blocks being provided. Supposedly, Bryant called out, “Look at that Porto Rican boy run!”
I always wondered… if you get divorced in a red state, is your ex-wife still your sister?