Hard to accept someone shaking hands with an individual who wants to kill you and who did participate in killing your cousin. Did she know his background? Somehow, I doubt it.
it’s called the christian thing to do
Which is the “Christian” thing. the intent to murder or shaking his hand?
Sorry. I thought you were asking why she’d shake hands with him. That would be Christian. Although I guess, given what I hear from the tea partiers, it could be the murder if they dare not agree with you.